Find Someone
Who Gets You.
We don't help you find more matches. We help you find the right one. Tovari combines psychology, behavioral science, and AI to introduce you to people who genuinely fit your life — not just your preferences.
Built for everyone. Straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, and non-binary — because everyone wants the same thing.
You both value emotional honesty, long-term commitment, and calm communication during conflict.
Most apps stop at the match. Tovari supports you before, during, and after the relationship begins.
Intentional from the very first moment
Tell us who you are
A smooth, emotional onboarding — not a test. Share your identity, your goals, and what you're really looking for.
Build your Relationship DNA
Answer a few deep questions. Our AI builds an evolving psychological profile of how you love, communicate, and connect.
Meet your curated matches
No endless swiping. Receive a small set of thoughtful introductions, each with a real compatibility breakdown.
Grow with AI by your side
From the first message to your first date and beyond — a coach that helps you communicate and connect with intention.
An AI relationship ecosystem, not a swipe deck
AI Dating Coach
Tovari+Ask anything — “Am I overthinking?”, “How do I set a boundary?” Get emotionally intelligent, judgment-free guidance.
Emotional Translator
Tovari+“I'm mad but I don't know why.” Tovari helps you understand the feeling and turn it into words you mean.
Before You Send
Tovari+Paste a message and see how it'll land — harsh, unclear, or just right — with gentler wording options.
Compatibility Score
Every match comes with a transparent breakdown across 12 dimensions — alignment, never judgment.
First Date AI
Tovari+Thoughtful date ideas based on your shared interests, comfort level, budget, and location.
Exclusive Events
Tovari BlackMembers-only gatherings, in person and virtual — supper clubs, mixers, game nights, and curated speed dating.
Couples Mode
Tovari BlackAlready found them? Keep growing — shared coach, check-ins, anniversaries, and a memory timeline.
Verified profiles
Photo verification and a verified badge, so the people you meet are who they say they are.
Dating or friends
Open to romance, friendship, or both — matching respects what you're actually here for.
A profile of how you actually love
Tovari builds a living, AI-generated portrait of your emotional world — and it grows every time you answer a question or connect with someone new.
“You both value emotional honesty, long-term commitment, ambition, and calm communication during conflict.”
Potential area to discuss“You prefer planning ahead, while they enjoy spontaneity.”
Suggested first message“Your profile says you'd rebuild a bookstore café — I'm in. What's the first book on the shelf?”
Everyone wants the same thing at the core.
Someone who gets them. Tovari is built for every identity and every kind of love.
Your first week is on us
Every membership starts with a 7-day free trial. Add a card to begin — you're not charged today, and you can cancel anytime before day 7.
One membership, everything unlocked
Members get unlimited introductions, the AI relationship coach, exclusive events, and Couples Mode.
Sign in to unlock your membership — everything opens up right here.
Tovari
- Profile and AI Relationship DNA
- 5 curated introductions per week
- Full 12-dimension compatibility breakdown
- Messaging with your connections
- Photo verification
Tovari+
- Everything in Tovari
- 15 curated introductions per week
- AI Dating Coach
- Emotional Translator
- Before You Send
- See who has already liked you
Tovari Black
- Everything in Tovari+
- 30 curated introductions per week
- Couples Mode
- Shared AI relationship coach
- Relationship timeline and shared goals
- Exclusive member events
Founding members: a limited lifetime membership is available during early beta.
Find Someone Who Gets You.
Stop collecting matches. Start finding the right one.